The first seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks of a relationship at any level (business, personal, mentoring, love, et al.) are absolutely crucial.

The research is abundantly clear. If you blow it and can’t fix it, get over it and get on with it.

And there are no ideal “lines” for first impressions or relationships.

A lot of people out there would seemingly like it if I just gave them a script and told them all the right words to say so they can get others to say “yes,” and fast.

And I can give you all kinds of cool words….even initials and letters and numbers that shift thinking.

But trix are for kids.

Waaaaaaaaaaay more important than words are the less often utilized factors of persuasion…most often things that no one knows about that will make a difference between “yes” and “no.”

An example:

The shirt you wear.

Your background

The background of the girl

The name of the restauraunt

But those suggestions are like “words.”

They help… a little… but you want to think of “yes” this way:

What if every web site you went to looked the same? They all had headlines in red and an opt in box on the right side….

THEN the person who had a blue headline would end up rich…because “surprise” is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more important than the most successful color from Christmas past.

That’s the reason that I show you what works with women in the context of seduction, but I don’t tell you or show you how to seduce, that’s up to your better judgement.

I sell you the weapons of mass destruction, what you choose to do with them is up to you.

BUT, You have to realize that some sameness is okay:

EVERY TIME you walk into a car, you want to come out alive.

Everytime you have sex, you want it to be with a woman and not a labyboy.

BUT, just because every time you swim into the water you want to come out alive doesn’t mean that you want to wear the same bathing suit for the rest of your life.

You want the internet but you don’t want every site to look the same, see what I mean?

BUT, at the same time, if I act the same as a don juan guy who gets a lot of girls, that WILL rub off on me.